Wanderlust
Remembering KC
Ride or Die
My parents’ twenty-eight year love story denotes “ride or die” through and through. My mom stood by my dad’s side during the years of injury, his retirement from playing basketball professionally in 1995, and the adjustments that soon followed. When the lights were dimmed and my dad hung his jersey to move to a new chapter of his career, my mom was there with even more love than she had when she first met him. My dad through the years has also shown loyalty to the woman he has chosen and this has become the foundation of their solid relationship. As a famous song goes, you get back what you put out.
It’s the kind of love I aspire to give and also inspires me to be the kind of woman my mom is: loyal and a true ride or die chick through and through.
Maraming Salamat, PBA
Doc Eagle
These experiences have encouraged Johan to one day be an instrument for change in the health care system of the country.
The Thing About Beauty
Those were indeed the good days. My relationship with magazines however came to a screeching halt in high school. The reason why I stopped reading was simple: I no longer felt the need to dive into the conformed standards of the magazine industry. It was in my sophomore year that I adapted the Kat Stratford (as in from 10 Things I Hate About You) persona – dark, brooding, and against everything that screamed cheerleader. I would like to tell you that this was brought about by my intense need to be my own person, but to be completely honest, it was more of a fifteen year old hiding beneath the mask of insecurity. Offhand, there is absolutely nothing petite about my 5’8 frame nor do I posses the divine looks of the sought after mestiza models or immaculate chinita campus crushes. I also wasn’t (and will never be no matter how many rounds of boxing and circuit training I do) reed thin. In short, I often felt left out and displaced.
Everyday Miracles
And while Ana admits that she struggled with guilt of being a burden, both her and William decided to sit tight and plow through, “We decided to continue to live as if everything was normal because we knew this was the new normal. You can’t stop life from going on as long. So we accepted our fate.”
When Passion Meets Fashion
The Tax of the Matter
Among the least topics that cross a youth’s mind is the country’s tax issue.
Things, however, are about to change for the younger generation as the impressionable Sen. Sonny Angara guns for a change in the tax system of the country.
Just on his first term, Angara has already been lauded from voters of all ages for his courage in talking about topics that used to be taboo, including the much-needed reform in the tax system of the country.
The senator, who was kind enough to give some of his time to a young writer, commented, “Our Constitution says that our tax system should be progressive—that is the rate it imposes on a person should be based on a person’s ability to pay. That is why our tax system is divided into income brackets: the higher your income, the higher your tax rate.”
The idea, just like anything else, is wonderful on paper. But the senator points out that the last time the tax code was amended was in 1997. And since then prices have increased, and the cost-of-living has roughly doubled. For example, an annual income of P500,000 today buys far less than what the same income could in 1997.
“As a result, many in the middle class—like yuppies—are squeezed tight for taxes from their incomes. And while income brackets remain unchanged, people who should really be paying less tax are forced to pay more because they are pushed to higher brackets,” he noted.
For someone who deals with only basic accounting, taxes never made much sense until now. Now, I’m beginning to understand why my pay increases were not doing much for me.
The senator continued to point out that the “Philippines has among the highest tax rates in the Asean.” Here, a taxable annual income of above P500,00 is taxed the highest, 32 percent as compared to 10 percent in Thailand, 11 percent in Malaysia, and 20 percent in Vietnam.
And the young Angara also believes that this is one factor why many Filipinos choose to migrate.
Asked how this affects the young people, the personable senator replied, “Under the current system, a mid-level manager with gross income of P60,000 is taxed at the highest 32 percent, which is the same rate imposed on the CEO of the company the mid-level manager works for. Such situations underline just how unfair our tax system can be—making it important that we update, reform and transform it.
“We need tax reforms because the current system imposes too much of a burden on Filipinos and their families, while letting those at the top of the pack continue their trek forward. We need to lower income taxes now because all too easily does the current system dash the hopes and dreams of our young upstarts.”
For him, the solution lies in Senate Bill 2149 (SB 2149), which he is working day and night to pass. Broadly, SB 2149 can lower the tax burden of each taxpayer. This could not only increase take-home pay, it also allows citizens to have more choices in spending.
He emphasized, “We want to do this by adjusting tax rates and tax brackets. For instance, under our measure, we want to lower the highest tax imposed of 32 percent to 25 percent by 2017.”
Fortunately, if passed, young professionals will also benefit. Instead of burdening them with paying such unfair taxes, they will be encouraged and empowered by the government to build their future.
Indeed, Angara’s passion is undeniable and inspiring. Asked why he doesn’t become jaded despite the many things the government has and hasn’t done, he explained, “The government is actually a very big institution, representing different sectors and employing people of varying walks of life. Whatever it is that we see, hear or read in the news sometimes misrepresents government as a whole.”
More importantly, a change in perspective is the only thing that one needs to believe in the government again. That instead of the corruption of top officials, Filipinos must recognize rank-and-file government employees who work tirelessly.
They are “public school teachers who go the ‘extra mile’ every day for their students; policemen and soldiers who are not feared but appreciated by the communities they protect; or managers and administrators who spend long office hours just to provide the best public service their agencies can offer,” he described.
He added, “The untiring service these people render is what I hope more of the younger generation gets to hear about and understand.
He ended, “Government is only as good as the trust reposed in it, which is why we in government must do what we can to earn the trust and confidence of the people we serve.”
With senators like him, young ones like us finally feel that we are getting our money’s worth. He also fuels us to believe that yes, a better tomorrow is possible and not just a passing dream.
A Return to Love
“Our capacity for brilliance is equal to our capacity to forget the past. The only meaning of anything in the past is that it got us here, and should be honored as such. Give the past to Him Who can change your mind about it for you.”—Marianne Williamson
IF you’re a day over 21, you may have, at one point, found the need to forgive someone and “forget” something horrible done to you in the past. If you’re a human being with real and raw emotions, this may not be the easiest thing to do. The world, in all its glory, is filled with hurt people who are hiding behind the pretense that everything is OK.
When I was younger, I naively thought that menacing people woke up with one mission in mind and that was to “to hurt and conquer.”
However, as you grow older, you are faced with two shocking truths: a) they probably didn’t know they were hurting you and b) you may have also been the evil one unknowingly.
Dealing with our past can be difficult, most especially if we have been cheated out of something that we think was supposed to be for us but once we understand that the people involved were probably doing the best that they can with what they had at that time, we’d sleep better at night.
We’re not quick to point out this truth because our narcissistic selves refuse to believe that it absolutely had nothing to do with us.
The outcome would have been the same even if we tried harder, dressed differently, or even looked better. That person would have been the same either way because that person has issues that have nothing to do with us.
Trying to understand the past is also a futile waste of time simply because there’s nothing that can be done about it. We’ve been hurt and have hurt others as well, and the only way to go through life is not constantly seeking revenge by showing off a better life, but truly letting the hurt go and wishing the person well.
And while it’s not easy, it is possible, with just the right amount of maturity and belief that nothing escapes God’s eye, and everything that happens in our lives has a purpose and one day, we’ll look back at those events and be grateful for them because those things that hurt us ultimately made us better, but only if we allow it to.
And to end, this article is dedicated to my baby brother who is turning 21 tomorrow, you have always taught me to be strong, to forgive, and most importantly to always rise above. I can’t wait to see your dreams come true and for it to inspire a million others, happy, happy birthday!