While it is true that you have to give people a chance to love you, I have learned that you also have to give them a chance to decide whether or not they actually do.
It's a sad reality but no matter how kind we are or how genuine we are, there are just some people who would decide not to love us and you know that's okay.
But it's important to give them some breathing room to be able to decide that.
The right ones will come at the right time and there is only so much we can do. We can't force people to love us nor can we continually display how "great" or "bankable" we are.
Some things we just have to leave up to fate and trust that the ones for us will find their way to us–somehow.
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