I’m known as the friend who gives blunt advice when you need to hear it. I’ve never been one to sugarcoat my advices to make a friend feel better about “reckless and stupid” decisions that they’ve made in their young lives.
Some friends appreciate it, some don’t. I really don’t care because I do this out of love.
I should have known better. I should have been more sensitive because I too is not exempted from a certain kind of stupidity.
Why do good girls always fall for the guys who criticize them to gain some sort of power? Why do guys like that exist? And why do girls allow guys do that?
I was a victim of that for awhile and then I snapped out of it and humility aside, I realized my worth.
Which is the point of this entry, I know out there, there’s a girl, or a bunch of girls who are going through the same thing, here’s what I have to say to you, “Get out of that relationship immediately. This guy doesn’t deserve you no matter how perfect he seems to be.”
And here’s what I have to say to the jerk: For every hurt that you’ve caused me, for every embarassment and for every time you’ve made me feel inadequate about myself by putting me down to feel good about yourself, it will come back to me ten times. There would be ten times more opportunities coming my way, ten times more people who love me and ten reasons for me to be happy.
I really hope you find what you want in life and I’m so happy to get that poison out of my life.
For the girls who are going through the same thing, do yourself a favor and dump the dude. We all deserve better.
Twent-een in six days!!! 🙂